"How To "Feature" Your Areas of Expertise To Women"

[ben2ong2]

   First of all, I want you to realize that the whole
purpose of "featuring" your area of expertise is to:

   1) Get a woman to enter your realm so that she's the
princess in YOUR domain. (And you're the wizard.) I will
explain this metaphor in future emails.

   2) OPEN UP conversation.

   3) Give you some social proof. (A guy who is good at
something must be worth SOMETHING, right?)
   
   4) Use it as a qualifier. A woman who does now care
about your hobby AT ALL is NOT your type of gal.

   5) To possibly use it as a launching pad for a date.

   All right...moving on...

   Let's pretend that you're a very good rock-climber.
How could you use that to your advantage?

   First of all, you could talk about rock-climbing
and how she reacts. (Using it as a qualifier.) If she does,
then you tell her one of your rock-climbing adventures, such
as the time your partner forgot to stop you and you almost
broke a rib as a result. (Open conversation.) Next,
you start telling her more stories as you pull her deeper
and deeper into YOUR realm. You also teach her a few things
about rock-climbing. This will give you a chance to demonstrate
your actual skill. (Social proof) Finally, you can ask her to
come climbing with you some time. (Asking For Date.)

   Here's another example. This time, let's pretend you're
a musician.

   First of all, you could talk about music and ask if she
sings. (Qualifier) Then you can tell her about your music.
(Opening up conversation) Next, you start telling her stories
and giving her tips on how to improve her voice. (Realm +
Social Proof) Finally, you promise to improve her singing
voice if she buys you a drink. (Date)
   
   Combine this with flirting and teasing, and women won't be
able to resist you.