"How To Deal With Competition"

[ben2ong2]

             I am often asked, "How do I deal with competition from
other men?"

   My advice is simple and sound.

   JUST IGNORE THEM!

   Listen. It's how much a girl likes you, NOT the other
guys that matters! You can't change how she feels about other
guys...so don't bother. This isn't the Dark Ages and you aren't
a Caveman. You can't lock your the girl you like in a cave
and ward off your competitors with an oversized baseball bat
carved out of stone. So instead of worrying about how you can
destroy you competition, just focus on thinking about about how
you can attract her to YOU. Remember: If she likes you enough,
she will brush off the other guys on her own.

   Here are a couple of practical scenarios:
   
   Scenario 1) Let's say you're returning from the
bathroom at a club when you see a young guy chatting up your
girl. What do you do? You walk over and say "Hi" to the guy.
Then you shake his hand, say "Nice meeting you", and turn your
back on him while continuing your conversation with your girl.
That's it. You just be civil to him and then you ignore him
completely. If you want to be diplomatic, take your girl by
the arm and lead her to another part of the club to get a
drink. Then you simply flirt with her and charm her instead
of worrying about the other guy.

   Scenario 2) If you girl is blatantly flirting with
more than 1 guy at the club, go mack around with other girls
and bring them over so that she can see you flirting with
them. She will get rid of the guys FAST before you even lift
a finger. Works every time.

   Scenario 3) If the girl you like is also seeing
another guy, just ignore the issue and don't talk about it
at all. Just focus on raising the chemistry between you and
her. Be a challenge and attract her to you instead of trying
to talk her into choosing you over the other guy.

   Now...some of you may be asking, "Marius, but how do
I actually "attract" the women I like? I am just not a
natural flirter and I've always been shy around women!"