"Triggering Automatic Female Lust"

[ben2ong2]

Contrary to what you see every week on 'Sex and the City',
women are the complete opposite of men in that, the more
*anonymous* the sexual encounter, the LESS gratifying they find
it to be. Unlike the fictional uber-slut Miranda, satisfying sex
does not begin and end with the quest to find someone new to
have an orgasm with. For the vast majority of women, the
MORE connected they feel to their partner, the more
overwhelming the total sexual experience is for them.

Just the reverse of typical male thinking, right? Men are intensely
turned on by the thought of having sex with a woman for that very
FIRST time, or by scoring a one-night stand with a perfect
stranger, or perhaps fantasizing about being in a porno movie
and having wanton sex with dozens of hot women he hardly
knows. The common link between all these scenarios is that
there is NO emotional bonding involved. Hell, there's hardly even
an exchange of names! For the man, the more anonymous the
sex the more *exciting* the idea of the conquest.

How the two genders make use of (and even exploit) this
knowledge of each other's romantic weakness, however, is an
entirely DIFFERENT story.

Women know exactly how to turn men on by manipulating this
hardwired 'quirk' in their character that absolves them of the
need to actually know anything about a woman who has
triggered his desire to mate. How? Simply by pushing this
uniquely male "anonymous sex" button long and often... by acting
sexy AND remaining emotionally aloof at the same time. The
stripper, the table dancer, the whore. The molten hot stranger.
Any persona will do -- and all are quite useful when their design
is seduction!

Men, on the other hand, seem mostly clueless about how to turn
the tables and pull off the same trick. In fact, the prevailing
feeling is that female lust is such a mysterious and unfathomable
'holy grail' so rarely encountered in real life that it's taken on a
kind of mythical quality. I guess some women just have it for
certain men... and not for others, and there's no understanding
the reasons why.

But can female lust be triggered by the deliberate actions of a
man? I say absolutely yes. Women get sexually turned on just
as men do of course, but -- owing to differences in reproductive
biology -- by a completely different set of mental processes. Men
go for a VISUAL look that suggests youthfulness and thus fertility.
But females aren't interested in a man's age so much because
males remain virile well into the later part of their lifespan.

What they look for, instead, are signs of male POWER.

You see, women possess a deeply-rooted pre-intellectual
*instinct* which compels them to submit themselves for
copulation in the presence of what they sense to be a
DOMINANT MALE. They cannot help feeling like this -- despite
the fact that the modern woman manages to suppress the urge
to act on these feelings most of the time (but, not always...). So
when a man learns how to project the most subtlest of gestures,
actions and attitudes that suggest he's a "dominant male", he
can force a woman's subconscious mating desires to become
aroused WHETHER SHE LIKES IT OR NOT.

And some of them won't like it a bit. She may get upset
because you've forced her to experience a potent feeling which
she may feel compelled to conceal with the workings of her more
rational mind. And yet when a woman consents to have sex
with a man who has set off these automatic desires in her, she
stands to enter into the hottest, most fulfilling sensual experience
that it is possible for her to have. And she knows it.

...AND she's also frightened of it -- because once unleashed in
this way, it can be difficult to stem the cascade of all-consuming
passion. She risks taking the kind of social and romantic
chance that only happens a precious few times in her life. Can
she allow herself to become addicted to a man who can make
her see stars?

By learning to adopt the actions and attitudes of the dominant
male, it is possible to create these sort of emotional
disturbances in women at will. Almost any girl that you can
manage to talk to in a SPECIFIC sort of way can have her "lust
triggers" ignited like a blow torch. And when the ability to seduce
becomes more a skill than mere luck, your chances of suffering
the humiliation of being rejected vanish too. Now you have done
more than learned to act the part of a dominant male, you have
*become* one. And truthfully, there's no real difference.

Because in this game, acting is BEING.