Dating and Society

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We all live in the time of the big social confusion and the “life in the fast lane”. Our modern man seems to not have learned from one’s predecessors. The western culture is all based upon the competition between the individuals and this has ruined a lot of lives. In the society where being “the best” at something is so important that we have almost forgotten what our real needs are. This is the time of the big media and commercials. The time of Hollywood and the big corporate money. All this galloping is responsible for the so-called modern disorders like anxiety and most common phobias.

The fear of other people and the fear to communicate have begun a common failure of our society. A lot of people would prefer to avoid the contact with another individual just to escape from the “I am not good enough” phobia than say a few words to the stranger. Hollywood has a substantial merit to “do not talk to strangers” motto, too.

So, we want to address this to all of our lonely and looking for contact with the opposite sex visitors: DO NOT BUY THIS, MY FRIEND. The society we live in with its nature and established rules and bans is 90% responsible for all the problems associated with dating. Think about it: How is it possible that something so natural as sex could be something that seems so difficult to achieve.

Realizing this absurd reality is the first step in climbing the ladder of successful dating.

A lot of you may feel inferior, nervous and too shy. For most of you this is just superficial but for considerable part of you it may be pathological. If this is your case, we recommend specialized help.

The best weapon against the modern man’s fear, my friend, is doing, practicing, working out the things that seem so natural (like relationships, for example) but that feel so unfeasible and almost impossible. Practicing and trying to initiate direct contact with beautiful girls and women is a precious weapon against loneliness that you all must honor.

But do not get us wrong: this is only the beginning because you now know how to start but “There’s a difference between knowing the path and actually walking it.”