"An Important Key To Flirting Over Email"

[ben2ong2]

Keep your messages SHORT.

   A common mistake that I've seen many of my readers
make when they email a woman is that they babble on and on.
Some of them even try to use "hypnotic patterns" that they have
learned elsewhere on the Internet. They literally write
paragraphs describing the sensations of going on a first date
or for a romantic talk on the beach...

   Or sometimes, they write pages about their own dreams
and ambitions...(As if a woman cares!)

   The problem with writing these "long-assed" emails is
that NOBODY likes reading long emails. Heck, I hate them too...
Every time I receive an email that is a dozen paragraphs long,
I feel like hitting the delete button.

   But that's not the most important point.

   The most important point is that when you're flirting
over email, you are not getting any feedback in real-time.

   In other words, there's NO way of knowing what you're
doing right or wrong.

   THAT's the problem with writing these long descriptions
and "hypnotic patterns". You have NO idea how well it's
working.
   
   In a real world conversation, if you sense a woman is
not interested in talking about something, you can sense it
right away and change topics.

   But that's impossible to do over email.

   If you make a mistake at ANY point in your email, be
it the first, second, and eleventh sentence, you're
going to lose her interest. She's not going to want to keep
reading. Even if she does, her attraction will probably as
you keep dwelling on something she doesn't care about.

   The longer your email is, the more her attraction
will drop!

[itsjustj]

lol, thats true.

[hoktar]

nice topic