"This Will Offend Many guys, I am Sure"

[ben2ong2]

   I haven't written any political incorrect articles for
this newsletter lately...and my fingers are getting kind of
itchy...

   That is about to change, as I am sure today's article
will offend many people. But hey...that's my job as a dating
coach, right?

   Here's my insult of the day....

   A lot of my readers have been "burned" by women and bad
relationships in the past...

   But you know what? My personal belief is that if you
keep attracting the kind of women who take your money or dump
you as soon as they have finished using you, you have nobody
to blame but yourself.


   I mean it. As much as you may think that "it's the
whore's fault" for ruining your life, it's really your own damn
fault.

   Let me tell you a story about my friend Tim. Tim is
your typical cynical and cocky guy who thinks he's Mr. Little
Hardcore. His nickname on MSN is "I am God" and his profile
picture is a picture of him flipping the bird. He believes
that women are all cheaters and golddiggers and that other
than for sex, women are quite "useless". (In his own words.)

   To be fair, Tim is the jerk who has no trouble attracting
women at all. But he does have one problem: Women keep cheating
on him or "screwing him over". It doesn't matter how attracted
they are to him initially. They ALL cheat on him or betray him
eventually. As a result, one of Tim's philosophies is that you
should never trust another person completely because people will
always screw you over for their own selfish gains in the end.

   But you know what? If he's always acting cynical,
sarcastic, and like he is Mr. Little Hardcore, just what kind
of women can he expect to attract - except drama queens, total
bitches, and other deranged women who share his cynicism
and twisted sense of humou?

   Here's my philosophy: You ALWAYS get what you ask for
in life.

   - If you look for women who share your sarcasm or cynicism,
then you WILL get a cynic bitch who'll eventually depress the
shit out of you in the future.

   - If you look for women who give you emotional roller
coaster rides because you have a knack for drama, you will end
up with a drama queen who'll drain all the energy out of you.

   - If you look for quick sex, don't be surprised if your
girl cheats on you one day.

   You get what you ask for - always. (Repeat this line
to yourself ten times!)

   By now, you may be thinking, "But what about the few
"nice guys" that end up getting screwed over by golddiggers?

   They're ALSO getting what they've asked for.

   For example, a lot of "nice guys" look for a woman
who's be "in control" of the relationship because they are
too chicken to take the lead themselves. So can they really
be surprised when the woman get bored or take control of
their bank accounts as well?

   Furthermore, most of my "millionaire readers" have tried
to flaunt their wealth in order to impress women. When you're
using your money to attract women, can you REALLY blame your
girlfriends when they turn out to be golddiggers? No!

   Here's the lesson of the day: Your mind works like
a filter when it comes to meeting women. It picks out the
kind of women that YOU want and filter out the kind of women
that you don't want.

   If you always act like Mr. Little Hardcore, what you're
doing is filtering out all the nice girls and only letting the
bitches into your life.

   If you act like you're a rich man, you're filtering
out all the women that are not interested in your money and only
letting in the golddiggers.

   Here's my passionate plea:

   From now on, ALWAYS remember the C factor in the "Smart
Dating Course". Always look for women that are honest and
respectful.

   Your happiness depends on it.

   I mean it - from the bottom of my heart!