"How to Make A Relationship Last"

[ben2ong2]

   Today I am going to show you a key to making a
relationship last:

   Keep flirting with each other.

   You know...a lot of people stop flirting once
they're in a relationship. Since they have successfully
courted each other and do not have to worry about attracting
each other anymore, they stop flirting and settle down
into a routine.

   Big mistake.

   No matter how long you've been going out with a
woman - be it weeks, months, or years - it is still important
to keep a romantic spark in your relationship. It doesn't
matter how well you understand each other. If the attraction
is gone, the relationship is going to suffer.


   The couple that plays together tends to stay
together, period. Isolate yourself from her romantically for
an extended period of time, and the relationship will go
down the drain.

   By the way...

   Here's a side benefit of keeping the attraction high.
When the attraction is high, your partner (and you too) will
be more flexible with each other - meaning there'll be less
fights and less arguments.

   So...if you have a girlfriend or wife already,
here is what I want you to do:

   Don't let the romantic spark go away. Flirt with
her every week.

   You should also seek out new adventures together.
Please don't do the boring movie and dinner every week and
settle down into a "routine". Try to do something fresh and
exciting once in awhile to keep the spark alive. Maybe go
to the beach. Maybe go for a picnic instead of a movie. Do
anything that you don't ordinarily do together and treat
it as a "first date".